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A Sample Numerology Compatibility ProfileA Numerology Analysisfor Patty Jones and Harry Miller by David Bromfield Birth data: Patricia June Stadler September 26, 1952 Harold Frederick Miller March 16, 1947 A Numerology Report by David Bromfield from Attitudes and A Path With Heart TABLE OF CONTENTS INTRODUCTION LIFE PATH EXPRESSION HEART'S DESIRE PERSONALITY PERSONAL YEARS Birth name: Patricia June Stadler Short name: Patty Jones Birth date: September 26, 1952 Birth name: Harold Frederick Miller Short name: Harry Miller Birth date: March 16, 1947 Patty, your Life Path is 25/7 Harry, your Life Path is 13/4 Your Life Path's compatibility is 7 and 4 Patty and Harry, your Expression is 17/8 Your Expression's compatibilty is 8 Patty, your Heart's Desire is 16/7 Harry, your Heart's Desire is 13/4 Your Heart's Desire's compatibility is 7 and 4 Patty, your Personality is 10/1 Harry, your Personality is 13/4 Your Personality's compatibility is 1 and 4 Patty, your Personal Year for 2004 is 5 Harry, your Personal Year for 2004 is 7 Your Personal Year's compatibility for 2004 is 5 and 7 Patty, your Personal Year for 2005 is 6 Harry, your Personal Year for 2005 is 8 Your Personal Year's compatibility for 2005 is 6 and 8 Patty, your Personal Year for 2006 is 7 Harry, your Personal Year for 2006 is 9 Your Personal Year's compatibility for 2006 is 7 and 9 INTRODUCTION Back to top... HOW TO READ YOUR RELATIONSHIP COMPATIBILITY REPORT When two people fall in love and become involved in a relationship, they naturally get to know each other more deeply as time goes by. At first, of course, everything is wonderful and friction is rare. Then, as time and the relationship moves along, you get to experience other sides of your partner and, inevitably, discover some personality traits you don’t like; and other traits you appreciate. The more time you spend together, the more you get to know each other. Yet even if you consider your relationship almost perfect, you will certainly experience at least some areas of possible friction. The purpose of this report is to point out the various personality traits you both possess, and how compatible they are. This report will also assist you to identify those properties that are, to some extent, not compatible, and gives suggestions as to how to prevent them from damaging, or taking over, your relationship. It is also wise to bear in mind that you both may have some individual qualities that, while they are positive in themselves, are not mutually compatible. Remember though, that negative traits are almost always a basis for friction or discord. As a result of this, you may find this Relationship Compatibility Report seems at times a tad critical and perhaps somewhat harsh - unlike most readings of this kind. If you feel uncomfortable with this, please remember that this report is designed to shed light on those aspects of your charts that need to be better understood and recognized, because if they are not, they can do a lot more damage to your relationship than a few remarks in a compatibility report. You will probably encounter some pieces of text such as: "The compatibility aspect in this area of the chart is already included in other parts of this report, offset by other conditions, or redundant." I have done this in order to offer you a perspective that is as well balanced and clear as possible, and repeating certain traits would only place too much emphasis on them. Master numbers are also handled somewhat different in a relationship compatibility report. This is where they are reduced to their single digit values, because it is in the archetype energy of the single digit that those personality traits are represented. So if a number that appears in your chart is 11, 22, or 33, and the compatibility report refers to the numbers 2, 4, or 6 respectively, this is not a typing mistake. It is an indicator that the compatibility is based on the single-digit sum of your Master number. You will also find that some numbers usually included in a personal numerology report are not included in a relationship compatibility report. The reason for this is because the .compatibility between two people is influenced much more strongly - maybe as much as ninety-five percent - by the four core numbers than by all the other numbers in the chart combined. In fact, the lesser numbers in the chart would only serve to muddy the waters if they were to be analyzed in the context of a relationship compatibility report. I trust you will enjoy your Compatibility Report and, much more importantly, I sincerely hope you will find this report to be beneficial to your relationship. LIFE PATH Back to top... If there ever was a moment of total transformation in your existence, it had to be the moment of your birth. In that instant of time, you stepped through a door from one reality into another - the reality of human life. It was a precious moment in the existence of the universe. The most important number in your numerology chart is based on the date of your birth, the moment when the curtain goes up in your life. Even at that moment, you were a person with your own unique character, as unique as your finger print. Everything that is you existed in dormant yet ready state, much like a play that is about to begin. Your entire life exists as a potential that has been previously prepared for. You have complete freedom to do with your life as you will. You can choose to fulfill its potential completely, or instead create some smaller version of yourself. It all depends upon your attitude, your effort and commitment to yourself. You make the choices to fulfill, to whatever extent, the potential for life that is present within you. In this sense, the "possible you" is implicit during the moment of your birth. The Life path number provides you with a broad outline of the opportunities, challenges and lessons you will encounter in this lifetime. Your Life path is the road you are traveling. It reveals the opportunities you will face in life. Your Life path number is the single most important information available in your chart! Patty, your Life Path is 25/7 Patty, you are the searcher and the seeker of the truth. You have a clear and compelling sense of yourself as a spiritual being. As a result, your life path is devoted to investigations into the unknown, and finding the answers to the mysteries of life. You are well-equipped to handle your task. You possess a fine mind; you are an analytical thinker, capable of great concentration and theoretical insight. You enjoy research, and putting the pieces of an intellectual puzzle together. Once you have enough pieces in place, you are capable of highly creative insight and practical solutions to problems. Patty, you enjoy your solitude and prefer to work alone. You need time to contemplate your ideas without the intrusion of other people's thoughts. You are a lone wolf, a person who lives by her own ideas and methods. As a result, close associations are difficult for you to form and keep, especially marriage. You need your space and privacy, which, when violated, can cause you great frustration and irritation. When your life is balanced, however, you are both charming and attractive. You can be the life of a party, and enjoy performing before an audience. You enjoy displaying your wit and knowledge, which makes you attractive to others, especially the opposite sex. But you have distinct limits. While you are generous in social situations, sharing your attention and energy freely, you are keenly aware of the need to "come off stage" and return to the solitude of your lair. You associate peace with the unobtrusive privacy of your world. Therefore, intimacy is difficult for you, because you guard your inner world like a mother lion does her cubs. All this privacy and aloneness can cause isolation and loneliness, however. You can be aware of emptiness in your life, a part of you that yearns for company and close companionship that may be unsatisfied. If isolation is brought to the extreme, you can become cynical and suspicious. Patty, you can develop hidden, selfish motives, which people may sense and may cause them discomfort around you. You must guard against becoming too withdrawn and independent, thus shutting out the love of others and keeping you from experiencing the true joy of friendship and close companionship. You must especially watch out for selfishness and egocentricity, thinking of yourself as the center of the universe, the only person who really matters. Social contact gives you perspective on yourself and on life, while too much isolation can make you too narrow and even shut off from the rest of the world. Secretly, you may feel jealous of the easy relationships formed by others; you may perceive others as less inhibited than you, or more free to express themselves. You may harshly criticize yourself for not being more gregarious, powerful, or capable of greater leadership. Patty, your challenge in life is to maintain your independence without feeling isolated or ineffectual. You must hold fast to your unique view on the world, while at the same time being open to others and the knowledge they have to offer. With your abilities to learn, analyze, seek out answers to life's important questions, you have the potential for enormous growth and success in life. By the time you reach middle age, you will radiate refinement and wisdom. Pythagoras loved the seven for its great spiritual potential. Harry, your Life Path is 13/4 Harry, you are practical, down to earth with strong ideas about right and wrong. You are orderly and organized, systematic and controlled, you are decisive and methodical employing a step by step rational approach to problems solving. Once committed you do not give up easily! You are not one for "get rich quick" schemes. Rather you use hard work and long hours to build a business or career; you seek to establish a solid foundation. Precise, tenacious and persevering, you have great potential for success, but only after putting out effort and overcoming the limitations you so often encounter. Justice and honesty are sacred to you. You are reliable and dependable, a cornerstone in the community. Though not an idealist, you are willing to work for a better world in a realistic way. However, you can be rigid in your ideas and sometimes too quick in judging your fellow man. You are loyal to those you love and work well with others. It is important that while being part of a team you have your own responsibility and well- defined task, you perform better when your responsibilities are not overlapping with those of others. You have to be careful not to be bossy and rude. You possess rare discipline and perseverance and not everyone can keep up with you. Harry, you can handle money carefully and like the security of a nest egg. Your love of work often leads you into a career early in life. Because of your methodical nature you can easily become rigid and stuck in convention. You can also be overly cautious when changes are necessary, this can cause you to miss opportunities that present themselves. You must cultivate flexibility in your character. You are well suited for marriage and often become a responsible loving parent. However, anything that violates your profound sense of order, such as separation or divorce can be a shattering experience for you. You easily become obsessed and even vengeful, seeking your own definition of justice. You are courageous and a true survivor. You are a builder and the foundation of any enterprise. Your hard work and practical, traditional values pay off to provide you with the rewards you seek and deserve. Harry, your 13 Life Path is somewhat burdened by the presence of a Karmic Debt. Those with the 13 Karmic Debt will work very hard to accomplish any task. Obstacles stand in their way, and must be overcome time and again. One may often feel burdened and frustrated by the seeming futility of one's efforts there may be a desire to surrender to the difficulties and simply give up on the goal, believing it was impossible to attain in the first place. Some with the 13 Karmic Debt fall to laziness and negativity. But efforts are not futile, and success is well within reach. One simply must work hard, and persevere in order to reach the goal. Many highly successful people in all walks of life, including business, art, and athletics, have a 13 Karmic Debt. The key to succeeding wit the 13 is focus. Very often, people with the 13 Karmic Debt do not concentrate or direct their energies in one specific direction, or on a single task, but scatter their energies over many projects and jobs, none of which amount to very much. A temptation wit the 13 is to take shortcuts for quick success. Too often, that easy success doesn't come, causing regret and the desire to give up. The result is a poor self-image, and the belief that one is incapable of amounting to very much. In order to focus, you must maintain order in your life. Order is essential to success. You must maintain a schedule, keep appointments, and follow through. Keep your environment neat and under control, and never procrastinate. If you sustain a steady and consistent effort, you will realize much reward. Your Life Path's compatibility is 7 and 4 Patty and Harry, your Life Path numbers are the most important numbers in your charts, and, as such, their compatibility is very important to the well-being of your relationship. Harry and Patty, your combination is almost made in heaven. The "almost" can’t be left out because there are some sharp angles to be rounded off. This relationship is founded more on intellectual and spiritual levels than on the sensual, physical plane. Harry is practical and grounded, goal-oriented - Harry is a doer. Harry can take ideas, quickly eliminate what won’t work or is unrealistic, and then make the realistic ideas materialize. Harry is of the earth. Patty, on the other hand, is full of ideas and spiritual search, philosophical and a bit of a dreamer. So, earth and heaven make up this combination, and, just like earth and heaven, you can’t exist without each other. Although this is only one aspect of the chart, its influence will help you overcome many of the obstacles and challenges inherit in every relationship. This combination is often found among relationships that started at a very early age - something that can be explained by the fact that both numbers are drawn to each other because what they have to offer is exactly what they need from each other. Harry experiences Patty’s more abstract and philosophical outlook on life as offering freedom and space for Harry’s solid, dependable, but somewhat too structured, restricting views. At the same time, Harry offers Patty a stable, secure port in an internal universe that is often chaotic and highly unstable. As a number seven, Patty knows the dangers that lurk in the dark corners of the subconscious when the mind wonders too far into the realms of dreams and abstract fears. While Harry offers a safe haven to Patty, helping Patty find peace and comfort, Patty, in return, brings freedom to Harry’s spiritual and mental experiences. Supported by this mutual complementation, this four and seven combination can bring about childhood romances that will last for a lifetime. The sharp angles I mentioned earlier are found on the more mundane, physical plane. This is where you both may have to compromise if you want your relationship to develop. While Harry requires order and respectability, Patty is more comfortable with a bit of chaos, in which Patty can pose as an observer, an unconventional observer, not per se seeking the approval of others. If you are successful in compromising on the material plane, your relationship will be very satisfying and you will get as close to the proverbial “soul mates” as any two people can get. EXPRESSION Back to top... Your Expression number reveals your physical and mental constitution, and the orientation or goal of your life. Some Numerologists refer to this number as the Destiny, because it represents a lifelong target at which you are unconsciously aiming. You naturally work at fulfilling this potential every day of your life. Therefore, your Expression number reveals your inner goal, or the person you aim to be. The Expression number reveals your talents, abilities and potentials that were with you when you entered your human body. Your name, and the numbers that are calculated from it, reveals your overall development, as well as the talents and issues you will be working with during this life. If reincarnation, or the cycle of rebirth is an accepted part of your personal philosophy, the vibration of your full name can be seen as the totality of your personal evolution. That is to say, the experiences, talents and wisdom you have accumulated over many life times. Every experience, no matter how great or seemingly trivial, along this evolutionary path through life has influenced your development, and brought you to your current state of being. The Expression is your being; the Life Path is the major lesson you are attempting to learn this time around. Time allows for the gradual emergence of your personality. By reading the Expression number below, you will come to better understand your basic nature and the abilities and issues inherent in your being. Patty and Harry, your Expression is 17/8 Patty and Harry, you both have the same number in this part of the chart. The following text therefore applies to both of you. Patty, you have the power and potential to achieve great things. It is both your challenge and your birthright to gain dominion over a small part of the earth. Whatever your enterprise, you strive to be the best and most successful in your field. You are highly competitive and will not rest until you are satisfied that you have bypassed the opposition. You enjoy challenges and rivalry. You are a realist and a visionary planner. Money and authority are available to you if you are willing to discipline yourself -- generally an inborn talent -- and persevere in the face of the considerable obstacles in your path. You are dynamic and have a talent for efficiency. You understand the larger picture, see the broader challenges, and know how to marshal your collective resources to address the problems. You delegate responsibility well; it is best for you to leave many of the details to others. Patty, you are a great leader of people and an outstanding judge of character. You are demanding of those who work for you, often putting things in no uncertain terms: do it my way or don't do it at all! At the same time, you don't hesitate to reward the faithful and hardworking employee. You are not a particularly tolerant leader; too much tolerance violates your sense of efficiency. You go directly after your goal with courage and tenacity. You have a natural understanding of money, authority, and power. You are able to struggle consistently after your goal. Eventually power falls to you. Within you lies an innate balance between the higher and lower characteristics of man. Your challenge in life is to balance your higher ideals and your understanding of the hard realities of the earth. Much effort will have to be put out and many ups and downs experienced before you reach the level of success you desire. Life will probably test you many times with obstacles that seem insurmountable. But in reality, these are merely opportunities for you to learn how to use power and authority in the face of difficulties, and to find out just how much power lies within you. It is crucial for your success that you balance the material and the spiritual. You have chosen a path that requires balance between giving and taking, reward and punishment, action and reaction. Despite the obstacles on your path, you are a true survivor. When focused exclusively on your desire for results and success, you can become stubborn and intolerant; you can be driven by excessive ambition, causing you to be exacting and without perspective. Be careful of your alcohol consumption, a danger-zone for you. Patty, you can be a social drinker, mixing business with pleasure -- a dangerous cocktail. An excellent manager, organizer and administrator you have talents in many areas of life. Entrepreneurs, executives, bankers, brokers, negotiators, gamblers, coaches, collectors, heads of institutions, builders, art dealers, manufacturers, promoters, military officers, police detectives, smugglers, engineers, pilots or sea captains. You have been entrusted with special gifts, the use or abuse of which has an immediate and often physical effect upon you and those around you! Use these gifts for the good of mankind and accept your own good fortune with gratitude. This is your rewarding stage in your evolution. Yours is a life time of harvest. Your Expression's compatibilty is 8 More than any other number in your chart, your Expression number reflects who you are as a person. Earlier, you read about the Life Path number and how important that number is in your chart. However, the Life Path number reflects "the path you walk on," and should be seen more as a powerful influence than as a part of your personality makeup. Your Expression number on the other hand, reflects a deeper part of you. It is more difficult to overcome possible negative traits you may have recognized in yourself when they are found in this part of the chart, than when they are found under the Life Path description. It can’t be emphasized too much how important it is to realize that numbers in different areas of the chart affect you differently, even when it is the same number. Sometimes, you may read something that seems to directly contradict earlier statements. Yet, if you take the time to think about them carefully, you will probably recognize that you, as a human being, are extremely complex and full of the same contradictions. This is simply the way we are. You may be organized in one area of your life, while chaos rules in another area. You may be tactful and sensitive in one setting, and direct and confrontational in another situation. Patty and Harry, the fact that you both have an eight in this part of the chart puts you in a position where you are well suited to support each other’s endeavors, as well as start something together. You are both visionaries with imagination and a talent for business. However, you are also both driven to be in charge, and you don’t like to surrender control to someone else. Because of this, you may find yourselves competing against each other at times. That should be avoided because, in a relationship, competition can turn into jealousy and anger. As long as you directyour strongly competitive natures against other forces, you have a good chance of a long and happy relationship, quite possibly financially prosperous as well. The eight is a good number for business, but its tendency to risk everything in the pursuit of a dream may bring about either enormous success or total failure. No other number causes a financial roller-coaster life like the eight. You will need to keep an eye on each other in order to prevent excessive risk. Patty and Harry, the biggest danger in this combination is poverty. To be financially strapped will negatively impact on all other areas of your life, including romance. It is important that you follow your heart and your intuition in the pursuit of success - that is the nature of the eight - but it is equally important that you keep enough of your assets out of risk in order to avoid serious problems. Patty and Harry, considerable financial problems will almost certainly ruin your relationship. You both understand the need for authority in life, particularly when it comes to raising children. You may have a tendency to be stricter and more controlling than most parents and this, too, can become a source of trouble. Families in which both parents have eights in this part of the chart tend to create environments wherein the children are given everything they need, including plenty of love, but that will come accompanied by too much control, and children will certainly rebel. You may realize that you have been under the illusion that you can form and shape your children according to your expectations, a guaranteed recipe for disappointment. Relax. Your children will grow up fine even if their dreams and goals are completely different from yours. HEART'S DESIRE Back to top... Your Heart's Desire is the inner you. It shows your underlying spiritual urge, your true motivation. It reveals the general intention behind many of your actions. As a consequence, it dramatically colors, shapes and influences the choices you make in life. Your Heart's Desire number is an integral part of the bigger picture, called the core numbers, which include the Life Path, Expression, Day you were born, and Personality. Bear in mind that each number points to, and describes, a different aspect of you. The Expression number reveals your talents and abilities, and your general direction in life. The Life Path is the central task you came into the world to accomplish. The Day you were born is very closely interwoven with your Life Path. It reveals specific talents you possess, which will be helpful to you in dealing with the requirements of your Life Path. The Personality reveals how people are inclined to see you; and it also demonstrates what characteristics you are projecting to the world. The Heart's Desire number demonstrates the identity of the soul that joined the earth - you, the spiritual being! Patty, your Heart's Desire is 16/7 Patty, you love knowledge, study, and insight. You value the gifts of your mind, which you use to great advantage to penetrate the mysteries of life. You study things in-depth. You search beneath the surface of things. You abhor shallow judgments or opinions. You have a natural gift for analysis and research. Once you have grasped the facts of a subject, your creativity and abstract approach lifts your thinking beyond the rudimentary to the philosophical. You have a theoretical mind, but rather than indulge in fantasies or idle thought, you prefer to base your theories upon scientific facts. Patty, you enjoy mental and physical puzzles -- figuring them out, taking them apart, and putting them back together. Some people may perceive you as cool or aloof. You are somewhat introverted; you may feel slightly removed and even a little different. The fantasy of the hermit or monk engaged in a life of study and meditation appeals to you. In relationships, you tend to keep things business-like and impersonal. You prefer to talk about the facts of a given situation, rather than the cloudier issues of emotions and personal feelings. You distrust feelings -- both your own and those of others. The whole emotional realm strikes you as unreliable, and a bit unnecessary. Patty, your inability to fully understand the emotional aspect of life is your Achilles heel. You are so rational that the unpredictability of the heart frightens and surprises you. Your challenge is to trust. You need to share your heart with someone. This is a courageous step for you, but will result in enormous growth and satisfaction. The advice here is to make a true connection with another human being. Without it, you may marry out of convenience or to fulfill social expectations, but it will not lead you out of loneliness. The more removed you are from people, the more you risk isolation, bitterness, and a cynical attitude toward life. This choice represents a true crossroads in your development. By sharing yourself with others (without compromising your independence and need for privacy) you can cultivate your enormous charm and share your understanding of life. You are a natural teacher and advisor. And the wealth of knowledge you will accumulate in life is meant to be shared with others. This is not to say that you must compromise on your need for privacy or time spent alone to contemplate life. These are natural aspects of your personality, which are essential to your growth. These characteristics should not be threatening to your spouse, but must be understood as fundamental to your being. Patty, you are blessed with a great reserve of intuition, which can be cultivated by regular meditation and contemplation. Your "inner voice" is your greatest guide and friend. You are idealistic and have high expectations for yourself. Learn to balance your serious nature with regular doses of fun. Your intelligence and cultivation make you charming and distinguished in appearance. As you get older and more comfortable with your identity, people are naturally attracted to you. They see your wisdom, your deep understanding of life, and the refinement you radiate. Harry, your Heart's Desire is 13/4 You like to live a stable, well organized life. You dislike sudden changes. You prefer orderliness in all things. You have a systematic mind that is reflected in everything you do. You can establish and maintain a routine. You are exacting with details and quite thorough. You like to carefully analyze a problem and then tackle it in a logical and practical approach. You want to be dependable, a rock of strength and an example of discipline for others. Work is central to your life, but you may have a tendency to overdo it; you can easily become a workaholic if you're not careful. You have a great deal of energy and can accomplish a lot. You want a family and you are a good parent. You may carry the discipline and the need for orderliness too far, especially in your family, making children and spouse feel oppressed and limited. Flexibility is your key to harmony and balance in life. For you, structure is more important than freedom, which you tend to interpret as chaos. But others do not have your need for well defined systems, in fact, they may feel deeply inhibited and uncomfortable with it. The peace you get from orderliness may represent a prison to someone else. Harry, you need and want much love, but you are not very demonstrative. You can be a little rigid and stubborn. You are honest and unpretentious. You detest liars and affectations. You can be very determined and tenacious. You are the bedrock of any enterprise. You have the courage to go into the nitty gritty of a problem and come up with a solution. Try not to lose sight of the larger picture and dream while you plumb the depths of the bottom line. Your Heart's Desire's compatibility is 7 and 4 Compatibility of the Heart’s Desire numbers is very important in a relationship - few relationships last beyond the initial stage if the Heart’s Desire numbers are not compatible. Patty and Harry, as you can see, the numbers that define the compatibility of your Heart's Desire are identical to those found in your Life Path. This increases the influence of both the positive and the negative attributes as described in your Life Path's compatibility. It is particularly difficult to overcome the negative influences as revealed under your Life Path. Go back and read your Life Path's compatibility again for a better understanding of how the increased influence of these numbers can effect your relationship. Learn to recognize the negative attributes of these numbers and be vigilant in your efforts to prevent a break down that could easily result if the negative influences of these numbers are allowed to dominate. PERSONALITY Back to top... Your Personality number is discovered from the consonants of your full name at birth. Your Personality is like the somewhat narrow entrance hall leading to the great, spacious room that is your true nature. It is those aspects of yourself that you feel comfortable about sharing with people at the onset of a new friendship or relationship. Over time, and with the building of trust, you gradually invite others into the deeper aspects of your nature; revealing more of who you really are, in effect, freely expressing your Heart's Desire, Expression, and so on. Your Personality number often serves as a censoring device, both in terms of what you put out and what you allow to approach. It discriminates as to the kinds of people and information that you allow access to your heart and mind. For this very human reason, your Personality is usually much more narrow and protective in its definition than is the real you. It effectively screens out some of what you do not want to deal with - whether it be people or situations - but it also automatically welcomes and embraces those things that immediately relate to your inner nature. Your Personality number also demonstrates how others perceive you. No human being can be truly objective about himself or herself. Even our closest friends and relatives have trouble describing how they see us. Patty, your Personality is 10/1 Patty, you radiate with a dynamic and efficient energy. You appear controlled and capable. You value courage and effort in the face of difficulties and these qualities show. Others can sense that you will not be pushed around. You should dress in a dignified and correct manner, caring for the details of your appearance. While you may spend most of your time in staid business dress or suits, bright and cheerful colors work well for you. You are fashionable, but have your own style. Your appearance suffers more than most people when you are overweight. Overweight directly contradicts the type of personality you are trying to project. Straight lines and square corners accent your good physique and enhance your appearance as a leader. Patty, you are recognized as a pioneer; you have your own ideas of how to do things. You are a risk-taker, original and highly creative. You should be wary of appearing too aggressive or unreceptive. You can intimidate people if you don't soften your exterior somewhat. By doing this, you will attract less confident people who will be more willing to approach you with their thoughts and suggestions. Harry, your Personality is 13/4 Harry, you radiate reliability and consistency. People trust you and feel secure with your judgment. You are seen as a cornerstone of a business and are relied upon to do your work efficiently and expertly. You have strength and respectability. You tend to dress in a utilitarian manner, concerned mostly with convention, practicality, durability, and price. You present yourself as someone who values correctness, control, and precision. All of this stems from the fact that your most prized characteristic is your work. You want to be judged on the basis of your performance, rather than your appearance. You are frugal and have learned to respect a dollar. You are concerned about the security of your future and those you love. However, this may appear to others as a bit too austere. You tend to wear earth colors and conventional attire. You could benefit by putting a little flair in your dress. Wear more uplifting colors. Loosen your dress with less severe lines. If you wear a brown suit, include a bright tie or some jewelry. You are a family person. You love the intimacy, consistency, and the security a family provides. You are a good provider and protector. But family members may take your efforts for granted. Harry, you are a true patriot. You love your country and are an integral part of your community. Your consistency and adherence to your well-laid plans usually pays off in a comfortable and secure future. Your Personality's compatibility is 1 and 4 Quickly recognized when two people first meet, not many relationships even get started unless the Personality numbers are compatible. This aspect of the chart reveals a combination that can be solid as a rock for a long time only to crash and burn in the blink of an eye. Stubborn, highly motivated, a self-starter and an unconventional individualist, Patty is also adventurous and not afraid of trying new, even risky paths. Strongly driven, the number one doesn't usually give a hoot about other people's expectations. So, Patty does whatever Patty wants to do and will fight anyone and anything trying to get in the way. Harry is no less gifted in the areas of persistence and ambition. However, the number four stands for everything that is sturdy, reliable, patient, responsible, conventional, detail-oriented and "doing things the way they should be done." And this is precisely where some possibly dangerous pitfalls for this relationship lie. Harry has both feet firmly on the ground. Undeterred by the prospect of having to take care of things that might be boring and routine, Harry will do the job, no matter what. Harry will not step aside just because something is difficult or may take a lot of time. The four marches on until the job is done. Period. Patty, on the other hand, does not have that kind of patience. When the forces are no longer in Patty's favor, it's time for war. "Confront the challenges head on with a 'damn the consequences' attitude" - this is Patty's dilemma. This can be a thriving relationship as long as Patty doesn't start on a path of unknowns and risky, questionable results. However, that will unavoidably happen and Harry will at times be seen as a stick in the mud, a source of frustration for Patty. When this kind of situation becomes overwhelming, it will almost certainly bring this relationship to an end. On the other hand, as long as Patty is able to respect Harry's need for a secure, perhaps even predictable, lifestyle, and Harry can understand Patty's need to try new avenues, take risks, occasionally venture out into unknown territories, the relationship can endure. PERSONAL YEARS Back to top... Your Personal Year number is a strong significator of the trends and circumstances you will experience during the year ahead. Your Personal Year cycles are based on the Universal Year cycles and therefore run in conjunction with the calendar year. Transit and Essence cycles are based on the letters of your name and run from birth date to birth date. There are nine personal year numbers, which makes up a complete cycle. Each 9 year cycle reveals the progression or evolution of a specific part of your growth. Your progress along this cycle can be seen logically, from the beginning of a growth period in your life, to the conclusion of that process. The 1 personal year indicates your first steps in a new direction. The years that follow indicate your progress along this path, concluding with your 9 Personal Year, which completes the cycle. Below is a description of your current Personal Year. It indicates where you are on the 9 year cycle of human experience. The Personal Years form the building steps that mark your progress through life. Patty, your Personal Year for 2004 is 5 This is a year of dynamic change, Patty. Many surprises will come your way. Be open and ready to embrace new opportunities. Do not be overly careful this year. This is a year in which a major step forward can take place if you are willing to take some calculated risks and do a little gambling. Wisdom and prudence is the key, but you will definitely be faced with choices that require fast action and a willingness to act before all the facts are in. This is an exciting year in which you will be required to promote yourself in order to take full advantage of the opportunities that await you. There will be increased opportunity to travel and possibly a change of residence. You may be tempted by the desires of the flesh: too much food, alcohol, sex, and drugs. Be careful and discriminate. You could make mistakes in these areas. You will have some unexpected adventures and lucky breaks this year. This can be an unsettling year if you try to cling to outmoded methods or characteristics. This a year to throw off the old and adopt the new. It is a rebirth and a release after last year's struggle. This is a year in which change takes place consistently, and particularly so in April and May. July is a breakthrough, a time to enjoy life. September can be intense, while October requires tact and balance in relationships. Harry, your Personal Year for 2004 is 7 Harry, you will experience a strong tendency to spend more time alone, to delve inside and find some answers and to reach a better understanding of yourself. This is not a year for social activities nor is it a year to try and reach goals on a material level. You will find that the necessities of daily life seem to be taken care of by themselves. There is no need to be overly concerned regarding your material needs. Without slacking on your daily duties and responsibilities, you can afford to give more attention to yourself. This is a year for inner growth. It is your spiritual and mental presence that requires attention. Improve the quality of your life, read, contemplate and gain insight in yourself. You are important now. Rest and attend to your health. It is during this year that you strengthen the foundation of your life, after all your success in all matters rests upon the strength of your inner self. There will be many strange and unusual events inspiring you to take a closer look at life and an opportunity is there to experience the joy and beauty of life without any artificial or exterior involvement but purely the growing awareness of yourself. Too much concern and desire for material rewards, Harry, will turn this period of your life into a very bad experience indeed, while a "let go and let god " attitude will make this such a fruitful and pleasant year that you may find yourself wondering what you did to deserve this. Your Personal Year's compatibility for 2004 is 5 and 7 Compatibility is as important with the cycles as it is with character traits. It is possible for a relationship between two people with otherwise very compatible charts to break down as a result of encountering one or more incompatible cycles. However, it is much easier to overcome or avoid possible pitfalls resulting from incompatible cycles than from incompatible personality traits. Patty and Harry, this is one of the most healing and loving cycles you can experience. The five and the seven are very different, but they get along extremely well. Patty is undergoing a time of changes and dynamic energy. Harry, you are a bit more withdrawn than usual because your focus is on your inner life: who you are and where you are going. Although the cycles tend to influence you very differently -- outward for Patty, inward for Harry -- these energies thrive on each other. Harry, your desire, consciously or subconsciously, to understand better who you are and where you want to go, as well as the fact that you are more quiet and subdued, creates somewhat of an aura of mystery around you. This is very attractive to Patty, in particular during this time when nothing else seems subtle and mysterious. Patty’s charged energy and inspiring attitude has a powerful and positive effect on Harry, for whom this is like a lifeline to the "real" world. A mistake people in Patty’s position sometimes make, however, is to view their partner’s quietness to mean that something is wrong. Don’t make that mistake, Patty. The one thing people in a seven period don’t want is for someone else to try to draw them out of that quiet space. Harry would probably experience that as annoying and intrusive. Just be together. That is all it takes to make this a wonderful time of closeness and deeply felt appreciation. Patty, your Personal Year for 2005 is 6 This is a year of progress and financial advancement, Patty. Major career opportunities present themselves. It is a challenging year in which personal growth is joined with new responsibilities and challenges. This is a year of domestic responsibility and attention to the needs of family and friends. It is a time of heart felt emotions and some sacrifice. It is a time for comforting and caring. You realize the importance of your place within your community. You will be called upon to help others bear their burdens. You are the proverbial friend in need. Patty, you must work to create an atmosphere of harmony and balance. It is often a time when marital issues surface and need attention. However, you possess the understanding to deal with such issues effectively if you apply yourself with love and flexibility. These deep feelings bring renewal to relationships and often a birth in the family. May is an emotional month filled with the promise and the stress of imminent changes. June is a breakthrough and a relief. September brings advancement, October self- reflection and readjustments, and December brings a sense of completion and fulfillment. Harry, your Personal Year for 2005 is 8 After last year's constant involvement with yourself and very possible occasional doubts about the state of your business or career you will find this year to be a relief, Harry. Things finally work out. Long postponed checks and promotions come through. You see the light at the end of your financial tunnel and an inner strength and confidence is breaking through. This is your year of harvest and, depending on the effort you put out in the past seven years, your reward will be equally large. There is a beauty in these cycles we can recognize and understand and in doing so we find ourselves "in the flow" and there is no more need to try and struggle upstream. So this year you will have an opportunity to involve yourself fully in work and material growth and bring home the rewards, at the same time a certain detachment is also necessary, for you and for the experience you have because it is not the reward that brings you happiness but your experience of life, which is why before the rewarding eight year you have had such opportunity for growth during the soul-searching of a seven year. Give in to your ambitions, you will find yourself more clear and focused and able to pursue and reach your goals. Harry, your power is visible and strong, mental creativity is high, vision and intuition will guide you, and at the same time you are more efficient and focused. There can be loss, serious loss, bankruptcy and failure, because always the rewards are directly proportionate to your effort and motivation, however you know the effort you put out and you know your motivations, so there must be no room for fear and doubt, only for success and winning and this year will undoubtedly turn out to be a very satisfying year. Your Personal Year's compatibility for 2005 is 6 and 8 Although quite different, these cycles are nonetheless very compatible. Both of you, Patty and Harry, will experience progress in career and other worldly matters. Harry and Patty, this can turn out to be an excellent time that may well bring a financial windfall. On a more personal level, you are also more involved with each other, albeit in very different ways. For Patty, it is simply a matter of the heart. Patty feels strongly committed and wants nothing more than to make Harry happy. For Harry, there is some awakening of leadership spirit and ambition, even within the relationship. And here is where we may encounter a possible pitfall. Harry, your tact and diplomacy are not particularly enhanced right now. You are taking more control of your life, but you have to be careful not to try and take control of the lives of those you care about, including, of course, Patty’s life. It is easy to see how that can become a source of friction: Patty needs your love, not your leadership. Focus your ambition on other things and allow your heart, not your mind, to control your relationship. Patty, your Personal Year for 2006 is 7 Patty, you will experience a strong tendency to spend more time alone, to delve inside and find some answers and to reach a better understanding of yourself. This is not a year for social activities nor is it a year to try and reach goals on a material level. You will find that the necessities of daily life seem to be taken care of by themselves. There is no need to be overly concerned regarding your material needs. Without slacking on your daily duties and responsibilities, you can afford to give more attention to yourself. This is a year for inner growth. It is your spiritual and mental presence that requires attention. Improve the quality of your life, read, contemplate and gain insight in yourself. You are important now. Rest and attend to your health. It is during this year that you strengthen the foundation of your life, after all your success in all matters rests upon the strength of your inner self. There will be many strange and unusual events inspiring you to take a closer look at life and an opportunity is there to experience the joy and beauty of life without any artificial or exterior involvement but purely the growing awareness of yourself. Too much concern and desire for material rewards, Patty, will turn this period of your life into a very bad experience indeed, while a "let go and let god " attitude will make this such a fruitful and pleasant year that you may find yourself wondering what you did to deserve this. Harry, your Personal Year for 2006 is 9 This is your year to finish up all unfinished business, Harry, to clean house and make room for new things. On a material level this is a good time to get rid of unnecessary weight, to give away or sell what you do not need anymore and to pay off old debts. On a spiritual level you will experience a different mode altogether. Your attention should turn to others and their needs, find ways to be of help and give time and energy to worthwhile causes. You must lighten your burden of questions and doubts and the best way to do so is by directing your attention to another direction, away from yourself and you will find yourself becoming lighter and more in touch with your self. This is a time of completion, problems can be solved and over with, strained relationships relax or disappear, the sources of stress in work or business can be better understood and dealt with. Be social and communicative, enjoy music and other arts. Harry, your creativity is higher than usual. There can be some difficulties this year due to your desire to face obstacles and overcome them, decisions have to be taken and courage and strength may be severely tested several times, this is not going to be an easy year all the time but you will feel relieved and on the brink of a positive breakthrough by the end of this year. This is the end of a nine year epicycle and will you will feel many times the excitement of a new and promising era when optimism is your friend but you will also experience the fear of letting go, however the more you let go the more room there is to be filled during the next epicycle. Your Personal Year's compatibility for 2006 is 7 and 9 Patty and Harry, you may feel somewhat distant from each other during this period. You are both experiencing a lot of emotions that are not easily understood or explained. Although you share the need to be more inward focused than usual, the reasons are quite different. Patty, in what is at least in part a subconscious effort, is seeking understanding and clarity. Patty is on a path of increased self-awareness and spiritual growth. Harry is also influenced by energies that focus inward, but on a more practical and emotional level. Some hovering insecurity may cause Harry to feel less confident than usual. There are doubts and questions in Harry’s life, but they are different in nature from Patty’s. Harry’s turmoil is largely emotional. There is a big difference in the way this internal search for understanding is experienced. Patty, strange as it may sound, actually feels strong and capable. Harry, on the other hand, feels vulnerable. Harry needs you right now, Patty. Harry doesn’t per se expect any answers from you, but you can be a much-needed source of strength. For both of you, this is a learning cycle. And you will certainly come out spiritually and emotionally stronger. blessings, David Bromfield | |||||||||||||
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